What Should You Not Do During a Custody Battle?

Are you and your child’s other parent involved in a contentious battle for custody (referred to as “parental responsibility” in Florida)? If so, you’ll want to act in a way that will ensure the best possible chances of success at court. Always keep in mind that the court will be prioritizing your child’s best interests, and follow these tips on what not to do during a custody battle:

• Don’t talk badly about the other parent to or in front of your child. No matter how hurtful your ex’s words or actions may have been, it’s important to remember that your child has unconditional love for him or her, and that forcing your child to choose sides could lead to feelings of guilt.
• Don’t discuss the specifics of your divorce or breakup with your child. This goes along with the point about not speaking badly about the other parent. No matter how mature your child may appear, he or she doesn’t need to know about what led to your split.
• Don’t get into an argument with the other parent in front of your child. It’s important that your child see that you and your ex are working together to take care of him or her. As much as you may dislike the other parent, make every effort to act respectfully and cordially.
• Don’t neglect to pay child support or fulfill your visitation (time-sharing) obligations. This applies whether you’re following a court order or simply an agreement that you’ve made with your ex while the case is still pending. Honoring your responsibilities will reflect well on you in the court’s eyes.

Legal Assistance for Parents in the Greater Tampa Bay Area

If you’re involved in a custody battle and you’re unsure what to do next, turn to the experienced attorneys at the Law Offices of Audrey A. Jefferis, P.A. We have considerable experience with these types of proceedings in Pasco, Pinellas, Hillsborough, and Hernando Counties, and we can provide you with advice tailored to your unique situation. Contact us today to schedule a consultation.